Since I don't get a chance to blog too much on OwenBloggers, I try to blog when there's something really important to share. And I have definitely found a topic that hits close to home.
I know, I know, you all have plenty of experience. You've got the CMC, and you've all networked before. But over the winter holidays, I had a chance to connect with several alums during my travels. And we all had the same tale--we'd recently been contacted by current Owen students who, well, need some networking advice.
It's not that alumni don't want to be contacted, we do. But during my two years at Owen, I admit, I easily forgot what it meant to be working 40, 50, 60 hours or more a week. Truly. If I wanted to say "screw studying" and head to McDougal's I could. And I miss those days like you don't even know.
But while I love my job, and like having at least one weekend day where I can do what I want, the reality of the corporate world is back with a vengeance. I don't have a flexible schedule and it's hard to fit in appointments during the day when my calendar is almost completely booked as it is. I share this not for pity, but just as a reminder. Because it was easy for me to forget, and that manifests itself in many ways...especially when networking.
That's why I wanted to share a few insights my classmates recently shared with me when it comes to networking.
First, be realistic of someone's schedule. No one takes kindly on emails that assume we'll talk when you're available. It's not that I am a CEO or anything, but when you ask for someone's help, ask for it on their terms.
I follow that rule no matter who I reach out to: "willing to make myself amenable to your schedule whenever you have a chance." One alum told me the story of a student who emailed him and asked if he had time during a 45 minute window that same day. The student knew he had a interview--and clearly hadn't prepared.
A second rule of thumb--do your research. I would love to hire every Owen student I could but (a) my industry almost always requires industry experience and (b) the industry is one of the ones suffering most in the economy. I have gotten a few emails where it's clear no research was done. Just a search in the directory leading to an email.
Another suggestion-be understanding. Right now I am so swamped, I have had to ask, kindly, networking contacts to reach out to me in Feb or March when the economy eases (hopefully) a bit. Many of my fellow alums feel the same way--they want to take the time but can't. Be patient.
Also, know that typically 1 in 10 networking requests are responded to. I try to at the very least, email back anyone who writes me. I want nothing more than to help. But many people are honestly too busy, or just can't prioritize your request. They don't mean ill will, they just can't. So make sure you're broadening your contact list.
Finally, don't miss a call. I had a student email me hours after we had scheduled a talk saying he was sorry (no reason given for why he never called) and when could we speak again. That's just not fair.
I recently connected a student with a business partner of mine--he had found the contact through my LinkedIn list. Here's the email he sent (and properly cc'd me). It's polite, respectful and appropriate. Take note:
Hello [name],
I hope you're doing well! As Susan may have mentioned, I a am 2nd Year MBA
at Vanderbilt focusing in [XYZ].
If you have the time or inclination, I wanted to see if I could connect with
you about some of the work I am doing around [ABC]. In particular, I would love to hear your take on it from an [XYZ] angle, as well as hear about your experiences at [company name] itself.
Thank you for fielding the request and I hopefully look forward to speaking!
One thing the student could have done better? Make the request worth the person's while. What can you offer them? At the very least, play to their ego and show you've done at least a little research and read an article they were mentioned in or a blog they write.
I hope these tips help a bit--alumni want the school to be strong and for the most part (I can't speak for everyone) want to help. But help us, help you.
By the way, I am now Twittering @DailyCareerTips so follow me there for some frank and honest career advice.
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